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As much as I wanted to, it’s impossible to keep your eyes on your toddler 24/7.
Sometimes we need to have a shower, make dinner, or do other chores around the house, and you can’t exactly drag your son or daughter into the shower with you, or have them crawling around while you use a hot stove.
A good playpen or playard is a good solution to this; it keeps them safe, gives them somewhere to play on their own, and lets you focus on things you need to focus on without having to keep your eye on them at all times!
The Graco TotBloc Pack ‘N Play (click here to check price on Amazon) is by far not only my favorite playard, but the most popular among parents, and for good reason!
It’s a fairly large playard: it measures 38×38″ square, rather than rectangle like many other playards on the market. This gives your baby a lot of room to move around play in, and also makes the playard very sturdy.
It has an 8-footed metal frame, meaning it has eight contact points on the ground. The sides are mesh and there are no sharp edges, giving it added safety.
You’ll appreciate the larger size when compared to smaller, rectangular playards; usually children will quickly outgrow them, but this larger version means your child will get extended use out of it.
The TotBloc Pack ‘N Play is great for those that travel, too; its main selling point is the fact that it folds up into a small, 38×10″ square and fits snugly into the included travel bag. It’s very easy to assemble alone, too; it should take you only a few minutes. It’s just as easy to disassemble, too.
It’s nice and colorful, too. As you can see, it has interactive bug toys on the walls, plus a cute colorful pattern on the floor. Most other playards are a bit drab, but this one looks cute and colorful. The fabric is easy to clean, too, in the case of spills or accidents.
The Graco TotBloc Pack ‘N Play Playard with Carry Bag is by far the best playard on the market for general purposes. If you need more options and features you might need to look elsewhere, but for a great, solid and safe playard, you simply can’t go wrong.
A playpen or playard is an enclosed play area that keeps your baby safe and inside of it, giving them a place to safely play without need for constant supervision. While you should never leave your baby unattended for an extended period of time, a playpen will allow you to have a short break or get chores done around the house.
Baby playards are usually self-contained units, made from either wood, plastic or metal frames, usually with their own center floor and mesh sides. Most playards and playpens will fold up, allowing for easy transport to the babysitter’s or grandparent’s house.
The ideal time to start using a playard is around when they first start to crawl, which should be around 6-7 months. It’s best to get them started in it shortly before they start to move around on their own, so that they can get used to it a little bit.
There are some differences between the typical playpen and playard. Playards are generally thought of as being an updated version of the playpen, but the fact is that both are still sold separately today.
The main difference is that playards are usually more fully-featured; they might have things like bassinets for sleeping, changing tables, shelves, organizers, etc. A playard with a bassinet can easily double as a portable nursery, which is great if you travel a lot — just make sure to choose one that is portable!
Conversely, playpens are generally more basic when compared to playards and don’t have quite as many features. They function better as a portable play area to keep your baby safe, and are generally more lightweight as well as less expensive. They usually don’t have any extra features found in some playards, such as bassinets or changing tables.
When looking around either online or in stores for a playpen or playard, here are some features you might want to keep an eye out for:
I cannot stress this enough with regards to any type of baby equipment. The number one priority is that it should be safe! Be sure to read reviews from parents and experts and keep an eye on product recalls. I would strongly recommend never buying a used playpen or playard; baby items are recalled all the time, and you’re much better off getting a new model that is proven to be safe.
You should think about how you’re going to be using the playpen or playard. Here are some features you might want to look out for depending on your needs.
You can expect to spend about $50 for the average playpen, or up to $300 for a high-end model made with luxury fabrics. However, any good one is going to do the job well, so you don’t necessarily have to spend this much money on one.
While it might seem like a nice gesture to hand down a playpen that’s been in the family for years, I would strongly recommend not using an older or used model. The idea of picking up a lower-priced playpen from a garage sale or Craigslist might seem appealing at first, but this is never a good idea. Baby equipment, including playpens and playards, are recalled all the time, and older models might have safety hazards.
There are several popular playpens that have been recalled over the years, so your best bet is to always buy a new model. It’s well worth having the peace of mind in knowing that your playpen/playard is completely safe for your baby to use.
First and foremost, watch out where you set it up. Don’t have it near heaters, radiators, doors that will be open, or windows. Keep it away from any dangling cords or cables, too.
Be sure to put any of your child’s favorite toys or books in the playard; this will help them associate it with fun and their favorite things. However, don’t put anything large inside that they could climb on and get out with. You’d be amazed at the escape artist skills of some toddlers!
Keep in mind that you should only use playpens for a short amount of time, and you should always keep an eye on them even when they’re using it.
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