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A rough guide to how much milk and food your little one needs as they grow!
Remember, all babies are different, and there are no hard and fast rules to this. However, these guidelines will give you a good idea of whether your little one is eating the proper amount as expected from their age.
Due to the tiny size of their little bellies, newborn babies need to eat pretty frequently. Did you know that a newborn stomach is only the size of a walnut!
If you’re breastfeeding, the guidance on how often they should nurse can be frustratingly mixed.
The NHS (UK) recommends feeding your baby on demand. This means you watch for signs of hunger (see Kellymom) and feed your baby as often as he feels he needs.
How long each feed should last can also be a source of confusion.
Scouring forums will only send you into potential panic as you read of moms whose babies nurse from anywhere from 10 minutes to 1 hours per breast.
Just remember that every child is different. I always felt that my child didn’t seem to want ‘enough milk, ’ but it turned out he was just a quicker eater!
Kellymom explains how to monitor weight gain and diapers to ensure that baby is getting enough milk.
Keep in mind the need for baby to fully empty one breast before moving to the next. This is due to the change of milk from foremilk to higher calorie hindmilk as a feed progresses.
If you’re formula-feeding, it should be a little easier to keep track of how much milk your little one is getting.
Formula-fed babies generally need to eat every three to four hours and usually eat about 2-3 ounces of formula per feeding.
With both breast and bottle feeding, always pay attention to your baby’s feeding cues.
Signs that they are still hungry may be:
Bear in mind though that, although you cannot overfeed a breastfed baby, you should make sure not to overfeed on formula.
Not surprisingly, you’ll expect to see your little one’s appetite increase at this time.
He will also be more vocal about letting you know he’s hungry since he’ll be less sleepy now.
A three-month-old should be eating 5 ounces of milk about 6 to 8 times a day.
This is where to the confusion around solid foods can begin.
Is my baby ready for solid foods?
How can I tell?
Should they just stick to milk?
Lots of popular baby food brands state that they are ‘suitable from 4 months.’
You may also have friends or relatives telling you that your child is ‘clearly ready for solid foods’ and that ‘babies had solid foods at three months in their day.’
Along with (false) promises that solid foods will make baby sleep through the night, it can be easy to be persuaded to get started on solids!
In fact, the World Health Organisation (along with the NHS and the American Institute for Paediatrics) advise that babies do not start solid food until six months. Before this, their digestive systems may not be able to cope with solids.
There is also a risk of obesity or developing allergies if starting solids too early.
Since baby should still take the majority of their calories and nutrients from milk to begin with, filling a baby up on solids may result in them taking in less milk, and their weight may be affected.
The NHS provides a guide to starting weaning here.
Genuine signs of readiness for solids include:
Baby should be able to do all of these things before tackling solid foods.
When you do start feeding your little one solids, aim for 1-3 tablespoons of food for one or two meals a day.
Pureed vegetables like carrot are a good, healthy starting point or you may prefer to try baby-led weaning, using small pieces of food which your baby can pick up themselves.
Many people also advise baby rice as a first food, although there is no evidence that there is any nutritional benefit to this. You may find, though, that by mixing it with breastmilk or formula, it is a good way to transition your baby onto more flavorful foods which may seem strange to your little one at first.
Trust your instincts and do what you think is right for your baby!
A baby should be having 24 to 32 oz of milk a day at this stage.
Around this age they should be drinking roughly 7-8oz about 3-4 times a day. However, don’t be surprised if they move towards dropping a milk feed.
You should also gradually introduce a wider variety of solid foods to their diet over these few months.
This is the perfect age to begin offering a two-course meal at each of their three daily sittings!
And then move onto a dessert such as fruit or yogurt.
By this point, baby can have three small meals a day, perhaps sharing mealtimes with the rest of the family!
Whatever you are eating, baby can enjoy in bite-size pieces!
(Just be aware of excessive sugar, salt, and spice which could be unhealthy or unpleasant for your little one).
Ensure that they have a balanced diet to stay healthy.
As well as at least 600ml of milk a day until they’re a year old it’s also likely that your baby will be enjoying water to quench their thirst alongside their meals.
Just be wary of too much fruit juice (which is acidic) as well as other sugary drinks.
Baby may drop further milk feeds at this age, going down to two or three feeds a day.
Don’t forget: all of our babies are different!
If you are ever unsure about your baby’s eating habits or weight gain, don’t hesitate to speak to your doctor or health professional.
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